idk i read alot of stuff so im just gonna be basic and say milk and honey cause i cant choose.
会勾起我性欲的是:
dirty talk and idk really know what to call it but when someone gets really embarrassed during sex and start covering their face and stuff, i think thats cute.
会浇灭我性欲的是:
toxic masculinity and when someone dosent like to be vocal you know? like they wont like to moan and they try to be quiet that sucks.